This one blog interested me a lot. The writer writes by name of Beparvah (meaning unconcerned) and his real name is Chandrajit Mukherjee, a gentleman professor by profession and a UPSC aspirant.

Few months back i got transferred to Mumbai and initially lived there alone for few weeks. One night sleep was not coming by and while i was randomly reading blogs i came across this blog of his ( and after reading few posts got so much absorbed that i read all past posts almost till next morning.

Beparvah has given a new dimension to the way people love. He had a girlfriend and for some unexplained reason went away from him which broke him completely. In the meantime unfortunately he loses his Mom who was a pillar of strength to him…

It would appear that our Beparvah would not be able to survive this double onslaught from God but probably his mother was still providing him strength from up there..He rose like a phoenix and gathered himself…Laughed amist tears of sadness..

Then he turned to writing his feelings. His love for the girl kept on increasing despite the separation. He did not approach her as he believes true love cannot be forced upon someone and believes if his love is true they will unite. The pain in his heart is quite evident from his post.

We as fellow bloggers tried to offer our unsolicited advices..Some asking him to move on while some even suggesting that he was being irrational but he did not waver a bit nor did he ever blame the girl even once for his situation.

Gradually we accepted and started respecting his decision. My only concern is that while waiting for true love is fine but life is limited and there may be new people willing to enter our heart , to become our soulmate and to give a purpose to our life.

If the girl in question is reading this blog please understand that it is important to provide a closure (positive or negative) to a person who considers love so pious so pristine…Whaever happens our heartfelt wishes are with our dear friend Beparvah ☺☺.


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parijat shukla

Sense of humour is the essence of life. Rest are just events !! :)

13 thoughts on “BEPARVAH”

  1. I wish I could have reblogged it..but I am scared that if a final end is achieved after reading. Then perhaps I will lose that hope which is helping to live my life somehow !! But from the core I really want to thank you for the effort you took ,
    I feel I got a bog brother !!
    After reading it I was almost into tears !!! 🙂 🙂

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    1. Chandrajit I am deeply moved and thanks you for your kind words and treating me as your brother…I was in double mind about writing this post for fear of sounding judgmental thats why i had asked for your prior permission to do so…After completing the post before publishing the same i read it to my wife to get an independent perspective in case i wrote something inappropriate in the process of putting down my thoughts..
      I know you will go a long way…In case of any help from me you know i am just a call away..I wish and pray you achieve all the milestones you have set for yourself in personal as well as professional life . Keep smiling 🙂 🙂


  2. You are a true soul who can go to any length to help someone! Appreciate your efforts for Beparvah! He is lucky that you reached his blog. It will give him some strength ti know that his words started touching hearts and I pray one day he will get his pious love back that he deserve!

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    1. Meenakshiji i dont know if i deseve such beautiful words of praise but its very touching and means a lot…Encouragement from friends on this forum motivate a lot in doing whatever tiny bits we can…
      Visited your blog…You do write beautiful poems, shall be a frequent visitor …Thanks again 🙂

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